Don’t allow yourself to be controlled by these 5 things

Many people spend their life , at the mercy of circumstances, living at the mercy of what happens to them, living at to the mercy of other people, not living in the present , because they are stuck in the prison of their past, if you want to live a great life don’t allow yourself to be controlled by any of these things.  https://thedworlds.blogspot.com/2019/08/berawal-dari-fikiran.html

            1.      Your past

Don’t allow your past to control your present or your future life. Whatever happened you must let it go, leave the pain of your past behind so it can’t ruin your future leave the darkness of your past behind  so it can’t block the light of your bright future your past it gone. Whatever happened , whether unjust, cruel, harsh, whatever the case relieving the events will never do you any good if someone did you wrong . the only way you can win is if you let go and move on. If you life in hate, they win, if you life in the victim story they win, if you want to win you must focus on building your future and start right now, release that weight from your back so you can be free, don’t allow events of the past , which are now gone to ruin this moment which is perfect this moment which is now to enjoy which is ready for you to live fully

           2.      Other people’s judgement

Don’t allow other people’s opinions and judge to control direction of your life the need to fit in and feel wanted can cause you to travel down paths you don’t want to travel people pleasing is a curse that should be avoided at all costs before you do anything ask yourself, am I doing this because I want to do it or because of my fear of judgement from others if I don’t you were born is unique for a reason you were born to stand out to be appreciated and loved for who you are don’t dim your light so you fit into the dull background of other people’s lives shine bright as you are those who really care for you will see that light and shine with you. https://thedworlds.blogspot.com/2019/08/benarkah-pendidikan-itu-mahal.html

           3.      Limited beliefs you project on yourself

Don’t allow your life to be controlled by your own limited belief. Now , a warning with this one. These beliefs may be conscious, but more that likely they are unconscious. They may be unconscious limitations that have been conditioned in you from a young age and throughout your entire life by listening to those around you who never reached for their own dream. Notice your own limited beliefs and tell them to shut up. There is nothing you can’t do. Nothing you can’t have and no one you can’t become if you believe in yourself. If you believe anything is possible guess what, anything is possible. When you change your belief from limited to unlimited your potential is unlimited. Imagine what you could achieve if you lived your life as though anything is possible as though miracles are a standard requirement of every day as the saying goes “ when there is no enemy within” the enemy outside can do you no harm when you have nothing inside holding you back there is no nothing outside that can hold you back either your entire life will change the very instant you decide to change your mindset. the instant you decide to see everything is a gift. When you decide to see every circumstance and challenge as a blessing rather than a curse  the very instant you become conscious to the fact  that everything is as it should be and know that fighting what is insane.

           4.      Relationship

But if  you are always needing another to be happy  to feel complete, then you are always one moment away from a breakdown if that person leaves you or unhappiness, if the relationship you are in is not going well Am not suggesting to avoid relationships. There is no force on this earth greater than LOVE and connection. I am talking about those who can’t LIVE if they aren’t in a relationship. Those who will be with just about anyone including all the wrong ones just to avoid spending a moment being single. What I AM saying is  to develop enough mental strength that you get to the point where you don’t need others  to make you happy . you  are just as happy being alone as you are in a relationship.

           5.      Money

This is what controls the majority of humans on the planet can you guess  what it is? Money this does not mean you should’t want abundance. It doesn’t mean money is evil. You know as well as I do what great things you can do and how many people you can help with money what this means is don’t allow your decisions to be controlled by money if you are choosing something only on the factor of how much money is involved , you’ve just made the wrong decisions what you will find, is that when you follow your heart and you lead with your intention to serve others, to give your best to others – every single time when your follow intention  and truly give your soul  then the money will come  and will come in far greater amounts than if you simply chase money for the sake of chasing money, so, challenge yourself to live the life you want to live free from being controlled by anything. Find your freedom, life fully.

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